There are three situations where you have to lie to your woman. These instances are when she asks you a question and you want to avoid telling her the truth. With that being said, lying is never a good thing. However, if you want to keep her happy then sometimes it comes down to choosing between two bad options. In this article, we’ll discuss those three situations where lying is necessary as well as some tips on how best to do so!
Now, who has not lied to his woman before? All men lie and if you’re going to get caught in a situation then you better come up with a good lie.
I am not suggesting lying to your woman is a good thing. I’m simply stating that in the end, she will respect you more and the relationship will go a lot smoother if everything is not always perfect. I have just 3 situations where you have no choice (as much as you hate it) but to lie to her.
We’ve all been there. A girl tells us she wants to know absolutely everything about us, and we’re happy to oblige. We blurt out all the embarrassing stories, our biggest worries, and things that are sure to scare her off…
1. Never mention your sexual past
No one likes to think of their partner as a slut, and you don’t want to plant any seeds in her head. If she asks what other women you’ve slept with, just say “none”. It’s not technically a lie because it isn’t true anyways!
Never mention sex with other people besides your woman (and even then be careful).
If your girlfriend wants to talk about her sex life with other men or women, do not offer up any information on how much better the sex was for them than it is for her now that she’s dating you. This is especially true if they were all better looking than you are too!
You know what they say: if you have to lie, do it with a smile on your face. And if you’re going to lie to your woman, make sure that your lie isn’t about how she looks.
There’s nothing worse than being told by someone that they think you look sexy when they really mean that you look like shit. Especially when all of their friends are around and they’re trying to impress them with how much they love you.
But there are times when you have no choice but to lie about how she looks in order to make her feel better about herself. For example…
If she’s gained weight recently, but only because she’s pregnant, don’t tell her that she looks fat! Just tell her that she still looks good and hopes for the best (and hope for a boy). What if she is just a girlfriend? Still the same thing, she wants to hear that she looks good, so tell her how beautiful she is.
If her hair has been falling out lately because of stress or illness or whatever reason, don’t tell her that it’s falling out! Tell her that it still looks great and needs no attention from anyone except herself!
If you can’t say anything nice–don’t say anything at all!
3. Don’t make jokes about her family
Look, we all have family members and friends that we don’t necessarily care for. It’s normal, especially when you’re in a committed relationship with someone. But just because something is normal doesn’t mean it’s okay to share your true feelings about her family or friends with her!
Now if you’re already dating this woman, then it’s probably safe to assume that you’ve met the people she cares about most in the world at least once or twice by now. If not? Well then maybe this isn’t the time for lies either! But if you do have some experience with her loved ones and their special quirks (or flaws), don’t ever bring these up when around them—unless, of course, your goal is to make things awkward between everyone involved. This goes without saying: don’t say anything negative about anyone else’s family member or friend while they are present either!
By doing this, it shows that you respect her and her family and she in turn will reciprocate that respect.
But the fact is that you do want to be honest with her. You don’t want to lie. But if you are, she’ll get angry and that won’t help your relationship at all. So in these 3 situations where lying is necessary, it’s probably best to do so as much as possible.
The little white lies don’t hurt anyone and are only meant as reassurance every now and then. If they start getting out of hand though (like if they’re too frequent), then it might be time for a serious conversation with your partner about what really matters to you both in the long run.
If you can keep your lies to a minimum and only use them when necessary, then it will go a long way toward improving your relationship. The key here is to not get caught up in the lie itself but rather focus on what’s really important: honesty and trust.
You don’t want to hurt her feelings, so you lie. But, what if it comes back to bite you in the butt?
Here’s the deal: women are smart and can smell a lie from a mile away. The problem is that men don’t always know how to tell the truth in an honest way.
The trick is to tell your woman something that isn’t exactly a lie but doesn’t really answer her question either. In other words, deflecting an inquiry with a statement that doesn’t actually answer the question at all is a great way to avoid lying but still make yourself look good in front of your woman!
We hope that this article has helped to shed some light on the things you should never lie about when it comes to women. If you follow our advice, then you’ll be well on your way to having a happy relationship with her. Good luck!
The rich men of the world are a finicky lot. They want their women to be beautiful and intelligent, with good taste in fashion and style. They want them to have a great sense of humor and plenty of energy for nights out on the town. And when it comes down to it, they just want someone who will make them feel like a million bucks when they walk into the room.
In order to find the ideal mate for yourself or for your son or daughter, you need only look at some of these lesser-known traits that attract men with money:
1. A woman that is determined and focused.
We’ve all heard the phrase “behind every great man is a great woman.” But, what about the other way around? What does a “great” woman look like to a rich man?
The answer is simple: she’s focused and driven. She knows what she wants—not just for herself, but for her family and future—and she goes after it with determination.
The reason rich men love this kind of woman is that they see themselves in her. They know that if you’re going to succeed in life, it takes hard work and determination. And nothing could be more attractive than a woman who has those qualities.
Rich guys love a woman who is focused and determined. They want to be with a woman who has goals for herself, and knows what she wants out of life.
Rich men also love it when women are independent, and when they can stand on their own two feet. They want to be with a woman who doesn’t need them to make her happy or fulfill her life.
Positive and happy. This is a very important quality for rich men.
Rich men want to be with someone who has a positive attitude about life because they know that this will rub off on them. They don’t want to be around someone who is always complaining or negative about their life or the things that happen in it.
If you are a positive person, then you will attract money and opportunities into your life.
If you have a negative attitude, then all the money in the world won’t help you become rich.
3. A woman with a sense of humor.
A woman with a sense of humor is an asset. In fact, this quality can help you get through tough times and connect with others. A sense of humor can also help you feel better about yourself, which is important since confidence is attractive!
Rich men like a woman who can make them laugh, but they also like to be able to make her laugh. If you’re not funny, don’t bother trying to win over a rich man—you will only end up wasting your time and energy!
A sense of humor is crucial for any relationship, especially when it comes to dating rich men. In fact, if you want to win the heart of a wealthy man, you should consider developing your sense of humor.
If you can make him laugh, he will want to spend more time with you because he will enjoy being around someone who makes him feel good about himself. A rich man wants to feel like he has chosen the right woman to spend his life with, so if he feels like he can open up and be himself around you, then chances are good that he will fall in love with you quickly!
4. A woman who can hold an intellectual conversation.
Rich men are highly educated, intelligent, and well-read. If you want to date a rich man, you’re going to have to be able to hold your own in the conversation.
This doesn’t mean that you need to be an expert on everything; it just means that you should be able to hold up your end of the conversation. If he asks you about your day at work and all you can say is “it was fine” then he’s going to lose interest very quickly. You should be able to talk about current events or the latest book or movie that you saw without sounding like an idiot.
So what do rich men look for in a woman? They look for someone who has substance and depth and can hold an interesting conversation with them without getting lost in their own thoughts every few seconds. Rich men want someone who can keep up with them intellectually as well as physically!
Contrary to popular opinion, rich men also want to have fun. As you know, “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy!”
Rich men have a lot of money, and they know how to spend it. They want to be with someone who can enjoy that lifestyle with them. That means a woman who knows how to have fun and will make sure that her partner is having fun as well.
Rich men are looking for someone who will make them feel special, and a good way to do that is by showing them how much fun they can have together.
You don’t need to be rich yourself—just be able to appreciate what he’s able to do for you!
6. A Woman Who Can Handle His Lifestyle.
There’s nothing worse than being with a woman who doesn’t understand your lifestyle. Not only does she make you feel like you’re not living up to your potential, but she also makes you feel like she doesn’t respect you because of it. A rich man knows that if he wants to be with someone who will support him in all aspects of his life, he has to find someone who understands what he’s going through. He doesn’t want to feel like he has to change himself just to be with the woman he loves, so he looks for someone who understands the trials and tribulations of being a wealthy professional and wants them in his life—even if they don’t have a lot of money themselves!
Women who want to attract a rich man will have to learn how to live with his lifestyle. A rich man is not just a man who has money, but also one who knows how to manage his finances. A woman who wants to be with him must also know how to manage her finances as well.
They have different needs and wants and they expect their partner to meet those needs and wants. If you cannot meet those needs, then it is better for you not to be involved with them because it will only end up hurting your relationship with them.
If you want to attract a rich man, then you need to understand that he has different priorities than other men do when it comes to dating someone or getting married. He wants someone who can make him happy and bring joy into his life, not someone who will drag him down with their problems or issues!
7. A Woman Who Is a Full Package
I honestly want to put this one last so as not to intimidate you.
Rich men want a woman who is a “full package.” In other words, they want a woman who has it all: looks, brains, and personality. And if you’re looking to attract a rich man, you should work on being everything he wants.
This means that you should have good hygiene and be well-groomed. You don’t have to wear makeup all the time, but it’s important to take care of your skin—rich men want women who care about their appearance and take pride in it.
A rich man also wants a woman who can hold her own in an intellectual conversation. This might mean that you have to brush up on some topics or learn something new—but it’s worth it if it means finding the right guy!
And finally, rich men like women who are fun-loving and happy-go-lucky. They like someone who will bring them into their lives with open arms and show them how much fun life can be!
Anyone can attract a rich man, you need to focus on building your self-esteem and confidence.
Self-esteem and confidence are vital attributes in attracting a rich man.
It doesn’t matter if you have been single for many years or if you are just starting out on the dating scene; you still have to be able to hold your own with men who come from money or who have a lot of it.
One way to build self-esteem is by learning about yourself and improving some aspects of your life like health, fitness, and even appearance (if necessary).
In conclusion, any woman can attract a rich man. You just have to know what you want in life and be confident about it. You need to build your self-esteem and confidence first before trying anything else!
Did I miss anything? Let’s discuss this in the comment section.
Maybe you’ve been single for a while, and it’s starting to get lonely. Or maybe this is your first time being single since high school and you’re just as confused as I was when I got dumped on my 21st birthday (a story for another day).
Either way, being single sucks sometimes—but it doesn’t have to! You can learn how to be your own partner and find love in the process. In fact, there are tons of reasons why people stay single: some of them are out of their control, but many are things we can change ourselves if we know what needs changing.
Once you figure out what’s holding you back from finding true love (or even just a good date), then it’ll be easier for you to get over those things so that your dating life finally gets off the ground again!
10 Biggest Reasons You’re Still Single & How To Fix It
1/ You’re too picky.
You want a partner who is tall. You want a partner who is athletic. You want a partner with the same religion as you, who will go to church with you every Sunday. Or maybe you want some rich and well-positioned partner. That’s fine and dandy, but that isn’t how real life works. There is no perfect human being out there for everyone—and even if there were, it would take them forever to find YOU because YOU’RE TOO PICKY!
And if by chance you find someone who meets all of your criteria (a tall, athletic person with the same religion as yours, rich or educated) then guess what: They’ll be totally unhappy because they didn’t get their way on everything. This person will have nothing in common with you besides the fact that they pass all those silly tests you’ve set up for yourself and anyone else looking for love in this world. Your standards may seem reasonable at first glance but once we delve deeper into our own psyche we realize just how unrealistic these expectations actually are; especially when it comes down to finding someone special enough for us to spend our lives together.
2/ You don’t go out enough
You might be a little shy and hesitant to branch out, but if you want to meet someone, you need to get out there. You can’t sit at home waiting for them to come knocking on your door. You’ll be surprised how easy it is when you’re actually out there in the world interacting with other people instead of just sitting around waiting for something that may or may not happen.
One thing that’s helped me combat this fear is going out with friends who are more outgoing than I am (which most people are). They’re always ready for a night on the town, so I’ve started going along with them from time to time when I’m in the mood for socializing and meeting new people. You too can do the same.
3/ You compare everyone to your exes
You don’t want to repeat history, so you’re holding out for someone who looks and acts just like the last person you dated. But what happens when you decide this person isn’t perfect? You’ll move on to the next one, who also isn’t perfect—and so on. Instead of searching for a carbon copy of your past loves (or anything else), focus on what YOU want in a partner: Is it tall or short? Funny or serious? A little bit older or younger? There’s no right answer here—just make sure that whatever it is, it works well with YOU!
And don’t forget: You can always change your mind later. If you meet someone who seems like they’re exactly what you want, but then they turn out to be not so great after all, that’s no reason to give up on love. Keep looking for someone who makes your heart feel happy and whole!
Stop comparing everyone with your ex. If your ex was so good, maybe both of you will still be together by now.
As I mentioned earlier, the biggest mistake you can make is sitting on your hands and waiting for something to happen. If you want to meet someone, you need to put yourself out there—and that’s true whether it’s in real life or online.
Okay, let’s say you have a profile on a dating website but haven’t logged in for months, that might be one reason why nothing has happened yet. How do you expect to find a date then? Sign back into the site (or create a new one) and start messaging people who seem interesting! Don’t be afraid of looking silly or getting rejected—as long as it’s not an outright insult or accusation of harassment, most people don’t mind being messaged by strangers online… just keep it light-hearted and friendly if possible.
You should also consider joining events put on by Meetup groups or other local organizations where singles hang out together–it doesn’t hurt knowing what events are going on near where they live (and they could potentially attend too). In addition to making friends outside their comfort zone in social settings like these – which can help boost confidence when meeting potential dates later down the line – this provides valuable opportunities for practicing conversation skills with potential love interests before even asking them out!
You might be a hopeless romantic and that’s okay. The problem is, that you may be focusing too much on finding the perfect match and not enough on meeting new people. Remind yourself that just because they aren’t your ideal match now doesn’t mean they won’t be later. This mindset will help you open yourself up to dating others who are also looking for something different in their partner—and it may just lead to something great!
6/ You’re afraid of getting hurt
As much as you want to find love and be in a relationship, the fear of being hurt again keeps you from making yourself vulnerable to another person. If this is true for you, it’s important to keep in mind that you can’t stop yourself from falling in love. You need to be willing to take risks if you want to find love and create a healthy relationship with someone else.
It’s also important that you figure out what kind of person(s) would be right for a long-term partnership—you should know who they are before they enter your life—and then decide whether or not it would be worth taking the risk (and potential heartbreak) with them. Once again: if being single feels better than getting into another bad relationship or ending up alone forever because no one wants anything more serious than casual sex with someone else who doesn’t seem interested in anything real either, then go ahead and stay single!
You’re afraid you’ll get hurt again, or that you won’t be able to handle being alone if things don’t work out. Or maybe you’re just not ready to settle down and are still trying to figure yourself out first. These are all valid reasons; they just don’t make for a healthy relationship with another person because they’ll keep them from getting close enough for the both of you to be happy together.
Your fear is coming between you and happiness—whether it’s your own or someone else’s. If this sounds like something that could apply to your life, start small: try taking risks in other areas of your life first so that when it comes time for dating again, those fears won’t hold such a strong grip on you anymore!
8/ Your standards are too high
Your standards are too high. Convincing yourself that your standards are set out of a desire for the best is what makes you think you’re being picky, but it also means that you’re not accepting people who might be good for you. If you lower your standards just a little bit (and I mean only a little bit), then there will be more people who match them and therefore more chances for you to find someone with whom to spend your life.
If we were to say “a little bit lower” and mean it, then what would that entail?
Well, let’s take an example from my own life: I had been dating ladies who fit all the criteria on my list of “ideal girlfriends.” They were beautiful, intelligent, well-educated, and kind—but they also drove me nuts! The reason was that they didn’t challenge me enough or push my boundaries in any way whatsoever. That’s what I needed at the time: someone who wasn’t afraid of conflict so she could help me open up (which ultimately led us down different paths).
I hope you get the gist.
9/ Your relationship skills are rusty
It’s hard to find love when you’re so focused on finding that perfect person. You need to let some guys in, so you can see how much better things are than what you think they are.
Be more open to dating: If the only type of man who interests you is an extremely confident alpha male with witty banter and a winning personality, then yes, it will be hard for anyone else to compete with these imaginary standards. The less selective you are about who’s out there dating and looking for love (and just because someone doesn’t seem like the ideal match doesn’t mean they’re not good enough), the more likely those people will find their way into your life!
Be assertive: Women tend to be more passive than their male counterparts when it comes down to showing interest in others – whereas men tend not only to show interest but also to ask questions about potential partners’ lives (creating opportunities for conversations). Being more assertive means taking advantage of these opportunities without being pushy or aggressive – which could deter potential dates from wanting another chance at getting acquainted later on down the road!
10/ Your idea of the perfect partner doesn’t exist in real life
When it comes to finding the perfect partner, you need to be honest with yourself about what you can and cannot do. If your idea of the perfect partner involves a guy who is tall, muscular, rich, and good-looking, or a woman who is beautiful, curvy, rich, and down to earth, then that’s fine—but it’s also important to recognize that these traits are not realistic for most people.
If you’re looking for a partner who is perfect in every way, expect disappointment. It’s more likely that someone will start out as an ideal match but then turn out to have flaws later on down the road.
It’s better to be realistic about what you want and then work on finding someone who has most of the qualities you’re looking for. If someone has all of them, great! But if not, that’s okay too. Instead of trying to find a perfect person, focus instead on finding someone who treats you well and cares about you as much as you do for him or her.
Know why you’re still single and what you can do about it.
Knowing why you’re single is the first step to fixing it. You can’t fix something if you don’t know what’s wrong. If you’re still single, this guide can help you figure out what’s going on and how to change it.
Here are some reasons why you’re still single:
You’re too picky. If everyone is as picky as you are, maybe it will take forever for you to connect.
You don’t go out enough. Nobody will bite you. Go out there and meet people unless you have some magic to bring them to your house. If you do, you won’t be single by now in the first place.
You compare everyone to your exes. Even though you’re ex may be great, think, why didn’t they stay and work it out?
You’re not putting yourself out there, Don’t always wait for them to make the first move. Put yourself out there and see what is in for you.
You’re focusing too much on meeting new people. If you want to meet all the people on earth before you can decide who’s good for you, you will waste your entire lifetime and not get a single result. Come on, there are over 7B people on earth. You can’t date them all.
You’re afraid of getting hurt, It’s good to protect yourself but don’t be afraid to love again. Not everyone is like your ex.
You choose comfort over love every time. Fear is the biggest enemy of progress.
Your standards are too high. Lower your standards a little but don’t forget to preserve your values.
Your relationship skills are rusty. Spice up things. If you don’t know how to, then check out our blog here. We have lots of resources to help you. Also, join us on Instagram and Facebook so you could interact with like minds.
Your idea of the perfect partner doesn’t exist in real life. If only we can all mold our desired partners by ourselves… but we can’t. So chill and set realistic expectations.
We hope the above list is helpful for anyone who feels like they’re struggling to find love. If it feels overwhelming or likes too much work, don’t worry about all of these things at once. Instead, just focus on one thing at a time until you start seeing results!
We’ve all heard the saying “love is a battlefield.” While that may be true, love can also be one of the most rewarding experiences in life. That’s why we’re here to share some of our favorite inspirational relationship values quotes with you. These sayings will help you stay motivated during hard times, and remind you that there are people out there who love you for who you are.
“I know it seems hard sometimes but remember one thing. Through every dark night, there’s a bright day after that. So no matter how hard it gets, stick your chest out, keep your head up, and handle it.”
Whether it’s a relationship or a friendship, we are all human and we all feel the same emotions. We all get hurt and we all want to be happy. When you feel like you’re going through a hard time in your relationship, remember that everything is temporary.
The sun will rise again tomorrow and you will be able to see it shine on your face as you breathe in fresh air. You will smile again and laugh again at the silly things that make you happy. You will find yourself falling in love with someone else who makes your heart skip a beat whenever they walk into the room.
Remember that even when things seem tough, they aren’t always as bad as they seem.
“Enjoy life now. This is not a rehearsal.”
The most important thing you can do is enjoy life now. This is not a rehearsal. There’s no second chance if you don’t take this one seriously, so make the most of it while you can.
Life can end at any moment, and it may be too late to say or do all the things you would like to before then. But if we only focus on things that will help us succeed in life, then we miss out on all that makes our lives worth living!
We need to make sure we’re enjoying ourselves and having fun as much as possible, because why else are we here? The world is full of wonderful people with whom you can share your time; enjoy each day with them. Make choices which allow yourself opportunities for growth and learning instead of staying stuck with what seems safe or expected of me.
“Feelings of worth can flourish only in an atmosphere where individual differences are appreciated, mistakes are tolerated, communication is open, and rules are flexible – the kind of atmosphere that is found in a nurturing family”—Virginia Satir
People have a tendency to get too wrapped up in themselves and forget that they are part of a larger system. They don’t realize that every action they take has an effect on the people around them.
People need to feel needed and wanted by other people, so they can be happy. But if we don’t let ourselves be vulnerable and show our true selves to others, then we can’t connect with them at all. We all need this kind of atmosphere where we can relax and feel that no one judges us.
“Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.”
Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. Don’t let them, don’t let them make you unhappy. Life is too short to spend time with people who don’t make you happy.
I’m not saying that all the people in your life are bad, but if someone makes you feel like sh*t, then it’s time to consider whether or not they’re worth it.
If someone is making you feel like you’re not good enough, then maybe they’re not worth your time.
You need to surround yourself with people who support you and make you feel good about yourself because those are relationships that will last forever.
“Don’t walk behind me; I may not lead. Don’t walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
This is one of the most famous relationship values quotes that explain how important it is to respect each other and listen to each other’s opinions without judging them or trying to change them.
It’s important to remember that we all have different opinions, perspectives, and ways of looking at the world. We’re all unique individuals with our own experiences, ideas, and values. So when you’re in a relationship with someone, it’s important that you listen to what they have to say and respect their opinions – even if you don’t agree with them.
“The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That’s what I hope to give you forever.” —The Notebook
Everyone in this world makes choices. Some choices make us happy, while others make us sad. There are many things that can make you feel happy, but love is one of the most important things in life. Love is not a feeling or an emotion; it’s a choice to be kind to your partner, honest with your partner, respectful when you’re angry at them, and patient even when everything seems hopeless.
It’s about choosing to give up your own needs for theirs because you know how much it will mean for both of you in the end—even if it means sacrificing what you’re used to having or doing on your own accord because you want this other person to feel good about themselves as well as comfortable being around them all day long every single day throughout their entire lives together.”
“In this crazy world, filled with change and chaos, there is one thing of which I am certain, one thing which does not change: my love for you. I Love You For All That You Are”
In this crazy world, filled with change and chaos, there is one thing of which I am certain: my love for you. Love is the most important thing in life. It is what makes us human; it is the reason for our existence. Love makes us better people, helping us to grow into our full potential and accomplish great things. It brings joy and beauty into every day of your life, no matter how small or big that day may be.
Love makes everything in your life worth doing because it gives your actions meaning—it shows you why you should do something instead of just because others told you so or because it’s expected from someone like you (which sounds very generic).
“Love doesn’t make the world go ’round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.”–Franklin P. Jones
Love is not a feeling, it’s an action. It’s not something that you do once in a while; love is something you do every day without fail. You may have feelings for someone, but if love isn’t based on actions or respect then it’s just lust and infatuation that will fade with time or change of circumstances.
“Set your goals high and don’t stop till you get there.” —Bo Jackson
To achieve success in any relationship, you must set your goals high and not stop until you get there. Don’t be afraid to try new things, don’t be afraid to fail, and don’t be afraid to ask for help when needed. You are an individual with a unique personality and it’s important that you remember this! Don’t feel the need to put on a front or pretend that something is true if it isn’t. The most important thing in any relationship is honesty.
“Keep your eyes on the stars and your feet on the ground” —Theodore Roosevelt
This quote is about keeping your head in the clouds but staying grounded. This is a good way to think about relationships: you can’t have one without having both. It’s not just about wanting to be with someone, it’s also about being able to keep things together when they get tough or stressful.
Inspirational relationship value quotes can help motivate people.
Quotes are a great way to stay motivated, positive, and focused on what you want in life. They can also help keep you energized. Inspirational quotes help people stay happy by reminding them of the power of positive thinking.
They can be used as a tool for self-improvement, motivation, and inspiration. They are particularly helpful for those who are feeling down or overwhelmed by life’s challenges.
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” – Maya Angelou
If you’ve been in a relationship for a while and you feel like something is missing or your partner isn’t being respectful of your needs, it’s time to reevaluate whether this person is right for you. If someone has shown his true colors by doing things like cheating on you or belittling your feelings, then don’t expect him to change overnight just because he says so. Instead of wasting your time trying to change someone who hasn’t made an effort in the past, focus on finding someone who will treat you well from day one.
“I am not a priority to the people who are only an option to me.”
You can’t be a priority to someone who doesn’t care about you. You can’t be a priority to someone who doesn’t care about themselves.
You can’t be a priority to someone who is only an option to you.
“No one is more cherished in this world than someone who lightens the burden of another.”
Someone who listens to and cares about you is a precious gift. No one is more cherished in this world than someone who lightens the burden of another. Do you know someone like that? I do, and he’s my best friend. Every time we talk, he asks me how my day was and then tells me something that happened to him or reminds me of something funny from our past together. It makes me feel so good when he does this!
I’ve learned some things about being a good listener:
Keep eye contact with them while they’re talking
Nod your head to let them know that you understand what they’re saying (or pretend like your dog just ran off with all your money)
Don’t interrupt them–this means no “Okay,” “Sure,” or “Hmmm” interjections until they are done speaking!
“If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it.”
We all have that gut instinct. That intuition that tells us when something is right for us, or if it’s not. If you feel like your partner is keeping something from you, or if you feel like they may be cheating on you, don’t ignore the signs. Listen to yourself and trust your instincts. It’s okay if they are just friends with someone else – but it won’t make sense in the long run if they’re hiding something huge from everyone around them. You deserve to be with someone who loves being honest and open about how much they care about their relationships – including yours!
“You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks.”
You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks. Don’t let negative people bring you down. It is important to let go of the things that don’t matter in life and focus on the ones that do. Your success can be overshadowed by the negativity of others; don’t let this happen!
“Believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact.”
It’s often said that when you believe in something, you can achieve it. This quote is good to keep in mind when looking at your relationship. If you believe that life is worth living and your belief will help create the fact. In other words, if you have a positive outlook on life, then this will lead to positive outcomes for yourself and those around you. The same can be said about a relationship: if you believe in your partner’s love for you and vice versa, then this belief will help make sure that your relationship remains strong for many years to come!
“People who matter don’t mind and people who mind don’t matter.”
This quote is from the song by George Michael, “Faith”. It may seem like a simple thing to say, but it’s actually very powerful. The message here is that if someone truly cares about you, then they will put up with your quirks and insecurities without becoming upset or frustrated by them. When we’re in a relationship with someone else, it’s important to remember that every person has flaws and imperfections. However, if you’re dating someone who cares about you more than themselves (or at least as much), then they’ll be willing to overlook any faults that you have because they want what’s best for you!
“Remember one doesn’t discover new lands without consenting to lose sight of the shore for a very long time.” – Andre Gide
Taking risks means pushing the boundaries of your comfort zone and exploring new things, which can be scary and difficult. But it’s also an opportunity to grow as a person and establish yourself as someone who is confident enough in themselves to explore something new. If you’re willing to step outside of your comfort zone, then you’ll find that there are many rewards waiting for you on the other side!
“Be the kind of person you want to have in your life.”
Be kind, generous, and honest. Be respectful, grateful, and forgiving. Be a good listener and communicator. Be a good friend, spouse, or parent; be a good sibling, son, or daughter.
“Treat others as you want to be treated in return”
The golden rule is a simple, straightforward principle that we all should live by. It’s an idea that teaches us to respect one another and treat everyone fairly in order to build strong relationships with them. The more we give, the more we receive; so if you want someone to show you kindness and compassion, then be kind and compassionate towards them first.
Moreover, it also means not just treating others like they wanted to be treated but being a good friend or listener when they need it most — being there for them no matter what happens between either side of the relationship
I hope you’ve enjoyed these quotes. The last thing I want to say is that it doesn’t matter what the situation is, always remember that there are positive things in life that can make your day better.
Toxic relationships can be hard to move on from because they often don’t feel toxic at first. But if you’ve been with your partner for a while and things have started to change, it’s time to start looking for signs of an unhealthy relationship. And that’s why we’re here! We’ll take a look at some common signs of unhealthy relationships and explain what they mean so you can better identify them in your own life.
You may be in denial about how unhealthy your relationship is, or you may not recognize the signs of a toxic relationship at all. A person who is emotionally abusive might have a way of making you feel like it’s your fault and that you are crazy for thinking there is a problem. Toxic partners can also use blame shifting to put the onus for their own behavior on others.
They might say things like “You’re too sensitive,” or “I did nothing wrong! You need to calm down and stop getting so worked up over nothing!” This type of manipulation prevents you from speaking up about what bothers you because it makes you feel like the issue isn’t real.
“You may have unhealthy relationship problems if you constantly feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner.”
If you constantly feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner, that’s a sign that the relationship may be unhealthy. You might feel afraid of upsetting them or being judged by them. You might fear what they’ll say or do if they find out something about you that they don’t agree with or like. Or, worse yet, your anxiety over their reaction will make it difficult to tell them what’s going on at all!
You also need to watch out for any signs that they’re placing unreasonable demands on you—especially if those demands are causing harm in other areas of your life (such as when they expect total devotion while giving little in return).
“If you’re scared of your partner, that’s a big red flag. You likely have an unhealthy relationship.”
If you are scared of your partner, then that’s a red flag. You should never be afraid of someone who loves you. It is okay to be nervous or stressed about something, but if your partner makes you feel like there is no way out of the situation, then it is time to get out before it gets worse.
Another sign that your relationship might not be healthy is if it feels like work all the time when you’re together. If every time that you see each other feels like an obligation instead of a pleasure, then something needs to change.
“If you’ve stopped expressing your feelings because it upsets your partner too much, that’s a sign of an unhealthy relationship.”
If your partner is constantly angry or upset about something and you’re afraid to say anything for fear of making them angrier, then this is not healthy. You’re not the only person in the relationship and if your partner has a problem with something then both of you need to work on resolving it so that it can be better going forward.
“Causing drama keeps people in unhealthy relationships so they can avoid dealing with their own problems.”
You don’t have to be an expert on healthy relationships to know that drama is bad for you.
Drama is a way of keeping people in unhealthy relationships so they can avoid dealing with their own problems.
People who are in healthy relationships don’t cause drama, and people who are causing drama are not in healthy relationships.
Drama can be caused by something as simple as a text message or as complicated as an entire secret life.
It doesn’t matter how the drama was created or what it’s about—what matters is the effect it’s having on your life.
Whatever it is that needs resolving will only get worse if you keep avoiding it.
“Manipulating, controlling, and lying are all signs of an unhealthy relationship.”
It’s important to understand the difference between manipulation, control, and lying. A manipulation is often a form of control that can be abusive. Control is a form of abuse, so it can also be considered manipulation. Lying is often used as a manipulative strategy in order to gain power over another person or group.
Let’s face it: we’ve all been in relationships where our partner is manipulative, controlling, or even lied to us. But if you’re seeing these three behaviors regularly in the relationship you’re in now, you might want to consider getting out of it.
Manipulation is when your partner tries to make decisions for you without your knowledge or consent. Controlling is when your partner tells you what you can and can’t do or wear—and often does so via passive-aggressive means like saying something like “I’m just asking.” And lying… well, that one speaks for itself.
All three of these behaviors can be signs of an unhealthy relationship—and if they happen on a regular basis, it’s time to get out of there before the situation gets worse!
“If you or your partner are fixated on the other person’s flaws or shortcomings, you may have unhealthy relationship problems”.
Insecurity is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. For example, if you’re constantly worried about whether or not your partner loves you, it could be a sign of insecurity in the relationship.
In addition to being insecure in general, this behavior can also be a sign that one party has low self-esteem and is trying to make themselves feel better by putting others down. This doesn’t mean that all people who have low self-esteem are like this; however, if someone is fixated on their partner’s flaws and shortcomings over other traits like their humor or kindness towards others then this could indicate some problems with their own self-image.
“Not respecting each other is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.”
When you don’t respect your partner, it means that you don’t respect yourself and/or them. This is a sign of an unhealthy relationship.
How can we advocate for respecting others if we do not respect ourselves? If I am in a situation where I feel like my needs are being ignored and my wishes are not respected, then I need to take responsibility for my own actions as well as theirs.
“Unhealthy relationships often involve zero compromises.“
Compromise is a sign of respect. If you can’t compromise, it’s likely that you’re not taking your partner’s feelings into consideration. Unhealthy relationships usually involve zero compromise—in other words, the other person is always right and the other person always gets their way. This can be draining for everyone involved.
When two people are dating, they should be able to find a middle ground on issues that affect both of them (for example: where to go out to eat). In order to make your relationship work long-term, you need someone who actually listens when you talk instead of just waiting for their turn.
“Jealousy doesn’t just mean they love you; it means they have insecurity issues that threaten the relationship.“
Jealousy doesn’t just mean they love you. It’s a sign of insecurity and control issues.
Jealousy is a tool that some people use to manipulate relationships. It can be used as a weapon against others or yourself, and it has the power to quickly erode trust in any relationship. If your partner is exhibiting signs of jealousy, it may be a sign that their own insecurities are threatening the health of your relationship. Jealousy can also indicate an abusive relationship, manipulative relationship, or controlling relationship, where one person feels threatened by another’s success or happiness outside of themself. It’s as simple as that.
“Using threats to control someone else is a classic sign of an abusive relationship and it will get worse over time if untreated.”
It’s never normal if you’re being threatened by a loved one or friend. It’s abuse and it will get worse over time if untreated. If you find yourself in a relationship where someone threatens violence or intimidation towards you, get help immediately. Threatening someone with physical harm is not just emotionally harmful—it can be physically dangerous as well.
“It’s often hard to see when we’re in toxic relationships, but we all deserve better than that for ourselves.”
No one wants to be in a toxic, unhealthy relationship. But it’s often hard to see when we’re in them—they seem normal, even if they feel wrong or don’t make us happy. We all deserve better than that for ourselves (and from others).
To help you recognize unhealthy relationships and tell if something is going on with your friends or partners, this sign should not be ignored.
When we look at the signs of unhealthy relationships, it’s easy to see how they can affect us. However, many people still don’t recognize them in their own lives. This is why it’s important to keep working on your mental health and self-care. You deserve better than an unhealthy relationship!
Maybe it was with a lover, or maybe it was with a friend—but either way, it’s hard to know how to deal with abuse. Sometimes, we’re not even aware that what’s happening is abuse.
And other times, we’re so used to being treated badly that we don’t know there’s any other way to be treated.
No cap, a good relationship should be built on trust, respect, and love. When one of these pillars is missing, it results in an unhealthy relationship. In some cases, abuse may be present in the relationship. Abuse is a form of behavior that takes place when one person uses power over another in order to manipulate or control them. While abuse isn’t limited to romantic relationships, it’s common for people to experience this type of behavior from their significant others.
Signs of relationship abuse
An abusive relationship is one in which one person has control over another’s life and actions.
Abuse can be physical (like hitting or punching), emotional (like yelling at the other person), or verbal (like calling them names). It can also be financial, like taking all of the money earned by the other person for themselves.
When you’re in an abusive relationship, you may feel like you have no power to leave—and that’s because the abuser wants it that way. But if you’ve been noticing signs of abuse in your relationship, don’t stay silent! You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and it is never okay to be abused by someone else.
If you think your partner might be abusive, the following are signs that you may be dealing with an abusive partner:
1/ Emotional Abuse
When you see someone or something as a threat, your response may be to attack it in some way. This is called “fight or flight” and is an important reaction for our survival: if we can’t fight or run away from danger, we need to use other means of protecting ourselves.
However, when people are exposed to long-term abuse and trauma—whether it’s emotional abuse (the more common type), physical abuse, or sexual abuse—this instinctive response gets muddled. The victim becomes conditioned not only to accept the abuse but also to react with fear and anger toward anyone who tries to help them escape it.
Here are some signs that someone might be experiencing emotional abuse:
They’re often embarrassed by their partner’s behavior but don’t want others to know about it because they’re afraid no one will believe them;
They stay in abusive relationships because they think all relationships are like this;
When trying something new like learning how to drive a car at night on country roads, they become easily stressed out by small things like traffic jams or having trouble counting backward from 10;
2/ Financial Abuse
You may be in a relationship with someone who is financially abusive. This is when one person, usually a woman, is controlled by the other person. Financial abuse may also be referred to as “economic abuse.”
Financial abuse can happen when:
You are forced to give up your paycheck or money from household chores or paid work (such as babysitting or yard work).
Your partner makes all of the financial decisions for you and you don’t have access to any of the bills.
You are not allowed to spend any money without their permission and they frequently withhold money from you at times that are inconvenient for you (for example, if they know that payday isn’t until next week but need something right now).
You owe them money because they have made bad decisions on behalf of both of you but claim that it’s your responsibility since “you’re an adult.”
3/ Physical Abuse
Physical abuse is the use of physical force against someone in a way that injures or endangers their health. It’s also possible for one event to be considered physical abuse, but more often than not it’s a pattern of behavior that constitutes this type of relationship problem. Physical abuse can be carried out by a partner anything — whether they’ve known the victim long-term or are just beginning to date them.
Physical abuse includes things like pushing, shoving, and restraining someone; punching and kicking; burning with cigarettes or other objects; throwing objects at others; attacking with weapons such as knives or guns; threatening violence with weapons such as knives or guns; sexually assaulting someone (rape); forcing someone into sexual acts.
4/ Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse is any type of sexual activity that you don’t want. This includes touching, kissing, or intercourse. You may be forced to do these things by your partner or someone else. Sexual abuse is a form of physical and emotional abuse. It can happen to anyone, regardless of gender or sexual orientation. If your partner forces you against your will or tries to manipulate you into having sex with them, then it is abuse.
5/ Cyber Stalking
This is one of the most common forms of domestic violence. Cyberstalking can make you feel like your personal safety is at risk, and it can cause serious damage to your self-esteem, confidence, and sense of security.
Cyberstalking can happen in person or online, but either way, it involves repeated threatening or harassing behavior over time. In some cases, cyberstalking is done specifically for the purpose of intimidation—to frighten someone into doing something they don’t want to do (like leaving their relationship). In other cases, cyberstalking may happen alongside other forms of abuse such as physical violence or emotional abuse that are meant to dominate their victim’s life choices by making them feel trapped in their situation.
This usually happens when you break up with your ex. They’d want to do anything to get to your skin. Please, don’t take it lightly. Report to the police if at any time you notice this.
Help for Abusers — Getting the Help You Need
If you’re an abuser, there are ways to help yourself. You can seek counseling or attend support groups with other abusers who are making changes in their lives. It may help to talk with someone who understands your experience and can give you guidance on how to change. Some abusive men have learned that they need help with their behavior but don’t know where to start looking for it. Connecting with a professional who has experience working with abusers can be beneficial in understanding the impact of your behavior and identifying what needs changing in order for the abuse cycle to stop.
To get started on changing your behaviors, consider these steps:
* Seek counseling from someone who is trained in domestic violence work or has some knowledge about abuse issues (there are many organizations that offer free resources). If you’re interested in seeking individual counseling as opposed to group therapy, look for a therapist who is aware of domestic violence issues so that she can understand the complexities of an abusive relationship; this will allow her to provide more effective assistance when working through problems together!
* Understand your role in the abuse. If you’re an abuser, it’s important for you to recognize that your actions have consequences for others. Take some time now to think about how your abusive behavior has affected your partner and anyone else who might be impacted by it. Understanding how domestic violence impacts everyone involved can help guide where you should focus your efforts at change.
* Get help for your behavior, not just the outcome of it. If you’re an abuser, then chances are good that there is something inside yourself that makes it difficult to be respectful towards others. Consider seeking counseling or therapy as a way to deal with these issues. * Recognize the impact of your behavior on your partner and others. Understanding how domestic violence impacts everyone involved can help guide where you should focus your efforts at change. * Learn better communication skills such as active listening.
Knowing how to identify abusive relationships can help you get out of them and get help.
One of the most important things that you can do if you’re in an abusive relationship is to know how to identify the signs of abuse. The best way to do this is by recognizing the difference between healthy, loving relationships and unhealthy ones.
There are many reasons why people stay in abusive relationships. Some people feel like it’s normal because they’ve never been exposed to anything else; others don’t want their kids or family members involved, so they stick it out at home until they can get away from their abuser on their own terms; some might not realize that what they’re experiencing is abuse at all. No matter what your situation is, it’s important that you know how to recognize and deal with an abusive partner—or even yourself!
If you are in an abusive relationship (that means being treated violently, physically, or sexually by another person), there are resources available for help with getting out safely (and legally). You may also find these articles helpful: “How To Leave An Abusive Relationship”, “Identifying Signs Of Domestic Violence” and “Moving Towards Change: Ending Sexual Assault In Your Community”. If someone has assaulted or abused you sexually please visit RAINN’s website for information about reporting options in your area as well as support services available through them directly here: https://wwwrainnorg/get-help/sexual-assault
If you’re in an abusive relationship, it can be hard to know how to get out of it. But the first step is always identifying what kind of abuse you’re experiencing, and then taking steps towards getting help. If you need some help with this process or just want someone to talk to about your concerns, call a hotline like RAINN at 800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit the National Domestic Violence Hotline website (www.thehotline.org). You’ll find resources for support groups and more on their website as well!
If you’ve ever been in a toxic relationship, then you know how it can sap your energy, make you feel bad about yourself and leave you drained. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to end the relationship and focus on your own well-being. In this article, we will explore some of the signs that indicate your relationship has become toxic and how best to handle them moving forward.
1/ They are overly jealous or controlling.
If you find yourself in a relationship where your partner is jealous or controlling, it’s time to seriously reevaluate the status of your relationship. Jealousy can be a sign that your partner has low self-esteem and needs constant reassurance about your feelings for them. On the other hand, jealousy could also be a sign that you’re dating someone who wants to control you—and not in a good way!
If they’re jealous over something small like another person complimenting your outfit, they might just have some insecurity issues and need some alone time with you so they can feel better about themselves. But if they start getting overly jealous every time another girl checks out what you’re wearing (or gives you high fives), then it’s probably time for both of you to walk away from this toxic relationship.
2/ They drain your energy.
A toxic relationship is one that drains your energy, makes you feel bad about yourself and your life, and causes you to lose sleep and feel stressed. If you find yourself feeling exhausted after time spent with this person or on the phone with them (and it’s not because you’ve been working out), then this might be an issue worth addressing.
The first step in dealing with a draining relationship is recognizing when it’s happening. It can be easy to get caught up in an abusive pattern of behavior without realizing it until it’s too late… or worse yet: You may realize that something isn’t quite right but hesitate to act because of fear or guilt (like thinking “I’m probably just being oversensitive”). The key here is knowing yourself well enough that if something doesn’t feel right—even if nobody else agrees—you know that something isn’t right for YOU!
3/ They make you feel bad about yourself.
This is a huge sign. If they are making you feel like you’re not good enough, then they probably think that too. If they constantly put you down or make fun of you in any way, then this is a toxic relationship.
Toxic relationships often make you feel like you’re not good enough. They constantly put you down and make fun of you in any way they can. People who are toxic will do anything to get their way—from telling lies about others behind their backs to saying hurtful things just because they want attention themselves.
4/ They make you feel like things are your fault.
This is a classic manipulation tactic. The person who is doing this will blame you for their problems and make you feel bad about yourself. It’s a subtle form of gaslighting, which means that they try to convince you that your perception of events is wrong, even though it’s not. In toxic relationships, the other person will often use this technique when they think they might be in trouble or caught in a lie—it’s an easy way to get out of accountability! This also makes it difficult for them (or anyone else) to help because they’re making themselves seem like victims rather than accepting responsibility for their actions or mistakes.
This is a big one. If they are constantly trying to get access to your phone, constantly asking where you are or what you’re doing, and always want to be around you even if it’s inconvenient for you — that is a sign of controlling behavior. Make sure that their actions match their words. If someone says “I trust you” but doesn’t actually respect your privacy and boundaries, that’s a huge red flag! This can also be seen by how jealous they get when another person shows interest in you — even if those people aren’t serious romantic interests or threats at all!
6/ They never apologize.
If you’re in a relationship with someone who never apologizes, it’s time to cut the cord. It speaks volumes about their character and the way they relate to others that they don’t even have the decency to admit when they’ve wronged someone else.
This problem is especially prevalent in toxic relationships, where one person has power over another (like an employer threatening an employee), but it can also happen in any kind of relationship where one person feels like they hold all the cards.
7/ They try to change who you are.
If your partner is constantly trying to change who you are, it’s time to move on. It doesn’t matter if they want you to go vegan or quit smoking or stop eating spicy foods—if they’re pushing their desires onto you and making demands of how your life should look, that’s not healthy for any relationship. In fact, it’s downright toxic.
If you’ve noticed that your partner has been trying to change who you are, it’s important to recognize that this behavior is a sign of control and manipulation. They want you to be someone else in order to meet their needs and expectations, not yours.
Recap: How to Know When You Need to Cut the Cord When You’re In a Toxic Relationship
If any of these things sound familiar, it’s time to end the relationship and focus on your own well-being.
You constantly worry about their feelings.
You worry about what they’ll think of you if you don’t do what they say.
You worry about having to change yourself because who you are is “wrong” for them.
They blame you for all their problems but never take responsibility for the issues in their own lives (or yours).
In the end, being in a toxic relationship is not worth it. It brings more pain than pleasure and ultimately does not help you grow as a person. For a friendship to last, both individuals have to be happy and healthy. If one person isn’t, the friendship will never work out in the end. Cut your losses and walk away from any relationships that make you feel worse about yourself after spending time with them.
If you can learn to develop a process for spotting and dealing with toxic people in your life, you’ll be much happier in the long run—and you’ll find it easier to build healthy, long-lasting relationships. It takes work, but when you pull it off, the results are so worth it.
If your partner is making an effort to change or if you are doing everything in your power to make your relationship work, it might be worth it to give it another shot. Even if you don’t think the relationship will get any better from where it stands. People can change, and you never know what is going on behind the scenes. Even if things get worse and the relationship gets intolerable, at least you gave it your best shot to make things work.
However, if you can’t live comfortably because of their actions, or if they’re attempting to make you unhappy, there’s a good chance it’s time to break up. Even if it doesn’t seem like an ideal situation, sometimes you just need to know when enough is enough.
It’s tempting for people to stay in toxic relationships with someone because you feel like you can’t leave. But the truth is, there are always other options. Your life and your relationships should be full of love, support, and honesty—and if they’re not, it’s up to you to take action. You’re worth more than what some people offer.
What is a toxic relationship?
A toxic relationship is any relationship that has a negative impact on your mental health and well-being. That can be anything from a friend whose words feel like knives cutting you down to an ex who’s trying to get back at you for ending things by spreading rumors about you.
Sometimes, it’s easy to spot a toxic relationship: maybe someone is always criticizing or making fun of you, or maybe they’ve been calling you names since the day you met them. But sometimes, it’s not quite so obvious—especially if we’re talking about people who are closest to us and we don’t want to admit that they’re causing us harm.
So how do we know if our relationships are toxic? If we find ourselves feeling drained or drained after interacting with someone, it’s likely not a healthy relationship for us. We should also consider whether our friends encourage us to do things that make us feel good about ourselves—or whether they’re constantly putting us down or making us feel bad about ourselves instead.
Has unexplained mood swings or changes of heart about little things that don’t matter.
Is very jealous and controlling, to the point where you feel like you’re walking on eggshells around them.
Doesn’t respect your boundaries or try to control everything you do—from what clothes you wear to when and where you go out with friends, who they are (or aren’t), etc… They may even tell people negative things about themselves to make you look bad! Or they might use other methods of control such as jealousy, guilt trips or constantly making everything your fault by pointing out every mistake that YOU make but never acknowledging THEIR mistakes once in a while – because they always have perfect lives according to them anyway…
You might be in a toxic relationship if you feel like the following:
You’re constantly putting your needs aside and focusing on the other person.
The relationship is one-sided and unhealthy, with either you giving or taking.
The relationship is harmful to both of you (for example, he makes rude comments about your appearance).
If this sounds familiar then it’s time for some tough love: You need to get out now before anything serious happens between either person resulting from these behaviors continuing unchecked.” You deserve happiness and love in a relationship—and that means getting out of a toxic one.
How do you get out of a toxic relationship?
1/ Put distance between yourself and the toxic person or people in your life.
It’s hard to cut the cord when you’re still in love, but it’s easier when you realize that toxic relationships can be just as bad or worse than unhealthy friendships.
If your relationship is causing you pain, don’t ignore your feelings—they’re trying to tell you something.
People are complicated, but so are relationships. And when someone is hurting us out of malice or spitefulness, it’s time to take a step back and look at how this person has affected our lives over time.
When you feel like you’ve been treated poorly or unfairly, it’s important to keep in mind that the other person may still be suffering and needs help. But if they’re just selfish and manipulative, then it might be a good idea to move on and start over with someone else.
2/ Stop feeling compelled to defend yourself.
You feel like you have to defend yourself. You feel like you have to prove yourself. You feel like you have to explain yourself. Stop. Just stop with all of that.
You don’t need to justify yourself or your behavior (or lack of it) to anyone, ever. Don’t let toxic people make you feel bad about who you are, or what’s going on in your life. The only person who can make any lasting difference in your life is YOU!
You might be thinking, “But I don’t know how to stop doing these things! It’s so hard!” And it is hard. But you don’t have to do it alone. Talk to someone about what you’re going through and get help from them first because sometimes the people closest to us are most likely also in our own way.
3/ Notice when you’re making excuses for someone’s bad behavior.
Excuses are a way of avoiding confrontation, conflict, the truth, and even a way of avoiding change.
Excuses are a way of avoiding responsibility and accountability, which is why they’re so easy to make when you’re in an unhealthy relationship! It’s easier to blame someone else than it is to take ownership over your own actions or admit that maybe there’s something wrong with the person you’re dating (or married/living with/etc). And if that person has been toxic for some time now and hasn’t changed at all despite your best efforts, what does that say about them? It says that their behavior isn’t going to change anytime soon—or possibly ever!
It’s time to stop making excuses for someone else’s bad behavior. Stop making excuses for your partner not being willing to change, or for them behaving in a way that you don’t like anymore.
4/ Never compromise your safety and well-being.
You should never compromise your safety and well-being for the sake of someone else, even if it is someone you love. This person might try to convince you that this is for your own good, but they are not putting your best interests first. You know what’s best for yourself better than anyone else does, so don’t allow yourself to be put in a situation where you’re unsafe or threatened.
A toxic relationship can also take advantage of your emotions and make them feel like they’re being taken advantage of. When someone is trying to manipulate you into doing something because they want something from you, that’s not love; it’s manipulation. If someone repeatedly asks favors of you without giving back anything in return—like money or time—then it may be time to reevaluate whether the relationship itself is healthy enough for both parties involved.
5/ Look for people who are supportive and encouraging, not competitive.
As you’re making changes, look for people who are supportive and encouraging, not competitive. A toxic relationship is about one person trying to prove something to themselves or others by bringing another down. Think about how you’d feel if someone were treating your friends that way—and then realize it should apply to your own relationships as well.
Be kind to yourself as you move forward in a healthier direction. It’s okay if things get messy at first: there will be ups and downs along the way! Notice when you’re making excuses for someone’s bad behavior (like “he/she was having an off day,” or “they didn’t mean what they did”), and never compromise your safety and well-being just because it would make them happy (or mad).
6/ Reach out to people who care about you if you feel safe doing so.
If you’re in a toxic relationship, it’s important that you reach out to people who care about and support you. It may be tempting to only reach out to close friends or family members—and that’s okay! But remember that anyone who offers sympathy and support is someone worth talking to. If there are no close friends or family members around, don’t be afraid to reach out to people who aren’t either of those things. You can also consider finding an online community where people share similar experiences. Whatever route works best for your needs, remember not to let shame keep you from getting the help that will help get your life back on track.
7/ Be kind to yourself as you move forward in a healthier direction.
Remember that the person who mistreated you is not a part of your life anymore, so it’s okay to start treating yourself well. You deserve to be treated kindly and with respect.
You should also remember that you don’t have to deal with toxic people if you’re in a relationship where there are other options for support (friends, family members). If your partner is mistreating you and doesn’t care about how his or her behavior is affecting other people around them – think about whether this person deserves your time and effort at all!
If they don’t appreciate what they have now – why would things change if they have more?
Some people may think that setting boundaries in toxic relationships will cause them more harm than good. But the truth is that setting boundaries can actually help these toxic relationships improve over time because it shows someone who has been mistreating us how their behavior affects us and others around them as well.
Toxic relationships can be difficult to leave, but it’s worth it. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness by the people around you, so don’t hesitate to say goodbye if someone isn’t treating you well. It’s okay if your life doesn’t look exactly how you thought it would when you first started dating someone—it doesn’t mean that person is bad or wrong, just that they’re not right for your journey at this time. Healthy relationships help us grow and learn more about ourselves; toxic ones only offer negative experiences that drain our energy and take away from our positive interactions with others who deserve our attention instead!
If you are in a toxic relationship, you should immediately seek counseling. There is no shame in seeking help from others who can provide emotional support and guidance so that you can make the best decision for yourself as well as your partner.
It can be so frustrating…even heartbreaking to admit that you’re not getting what you want in a relationship. However, it doesn’t have to stay this way. Let me share with you 5 surprising reasons you’re not getting what you want in a relationship.
We have all been there before. We want something to happen, but it doesn’t. The more we try the more frustrated we become. It’s happened to me and I know people who have gone through a cycle of this.
We are told to be ourselves. To not change or apologize for who we are. So how come it often seems that being ourselves is the reason why we aren’t getting what we want in relationships? Or are you not thinking what I am thinking?
If you having a tough time in your relationship, or your relationship and/or love life slowed down, or maybe it has reached the stage that your partner takes you for granted. If so, you are not alone. Many people have successful relationships but still, have crummy love lives. Or even worse, their love lives are great, but their relationships suffer. I know because I’ve been there.
Why are you not getting what you want in a relationship?
If you’ve ever been in a relationship, chances are you’ve experienced the frustration of not getting what you want. In fact, we’d guess that most people have at least one relationship where they feel like they’re not getting what they need. So why is this happening?
Well, it’s probably not because the other person is a jerk who just doesn’t care about you. It’s more likely that there are some things going on in your life that are causing you to behave in ways that make it difficult for the other person to meet your needs.
1. You’re treating it like a game
One of the most common reasons why people don’t get what they want from their relationships is because they treat them like games—and it’s easy to do! After all, if you haven’t had much luck with dating before, it might be tempting to go into new relationships with an attitude of “let’s see how long this one lasts.”
But that’s not good for anyone in the long run. If you treat every relationship like a game, then eventually people will catch on and stop taking things seriously with you—which means less opportunity for genuine connection and more time wasted on people who aren’t worth your time (or theirs). So if this sounds like something
So if you’re not getting what you want in a relationship, it’s probably because you’re treating it like a game.
Relationships are not games, and they’re not guaranteed to work out. But if you want to give your relationship the best chance at succeeding, there are some things you need to do—and some things you need to stop doing.
One of the biggest factors that will determine whether or not your relationship works out is whether or not you are willing to put in the effort necessary to make it succeed. If you want something badly enough, anything can happen.
You’re not getting what you want in a relationship because you’re not giving what you want to receive.
You might be wondering, “Why on earth would I want to give someone something they couldn’t possibly offer me?”
It’s true: those who are good at receiving gifts and attention are often the ones who have the most fun in relationships. If you’ve ever been around someone who is always asking for more and more attention, affection, or even just a shoulder to cry on when they feel like it—and then actually seems to get what they want—you know how powerful this can be.
But if you’re not willing to give it up, all that power is wasted on one person: YOU! So if you want to really make headway in your life—if you want to start building a stronger relationship with yourself and others—you need to start paying attention to what YOU need.
You may think that if you act like a person who wants to be in a strong relationship, then others will take notice and want to be in one with you too. That’s not how it works though! You’ve got to actually BE the person who wants this kind of relationship before anyone else will see it in you. And if you’re not giving what you want to receive, then this won’t work out for you either.
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When you’re in a relationship, it can be tempting to focus on all of the things that are wrong with your partner and how they could be better. You might notice the way their eyes crinkle when they smile at you and think about how much more beautiful they would be if only those wrinkles were gone. Or maybe you notice that their laugh is a little too loud and then find yourself thinking about how embarrassing it would be if people heard them on the street.
But focusing on what’s missing is going to get you nowhere fast.
It’s easy to focus on the little things that bug us about our partners—their annoying habits, their inability to clean up after themselves, their tendencies to be late or overly sensitive. But these traits aren’t worth losing out on something great just because they’re slightly irritating! Remember: if something isn’t broken, there’s no need for repair work.
The truth is, if we keep putting those kinds of thoughts on our partners and our relationships, we’ll never see them grow into something bigger than they already are! If something is bothering you about your partner or your relationship, talk to them about it! Don’t keep it bottled up inside because then it will only fester and take over everything else that’s going on around it.
4. Your Standards Are Unrealistic
When it comes to relationships, we all have our own idea of what we want. But sometimes, we end up settling for less than we deserve because of the belief that some things are just not possible—and that’s a problem.
If you’re not getting what you want in a relationship, maybe your standards are too high. Maybe you think that Mr. Right should be rich, handsome, and funny all at once. Or maybe you’re looking for someone who is perfect in every way, which is impossible.
Try lowering your expectations and making peace with imperfections in your partner. You might be surprised at how much better things get!
5. You don’t know what you want
You’re not getting what you want in your relationship because you don’t know what you want.
We know, we know—that sounds like a bunch of psychobabble. But it’s true! If you don’t know what it is that will make you happy in a relationship, then you’re not going to be able to find that thing, and that thing alone won’t be enough to make up for all of the other things wrong with the relationship.
So how do you figure out what makes you happy? Start by trying on different ideas for what would make your life better—and then see if those things are compatible with being in a relationship (and vice versa). For example:
-If I had more money, I would buy myself a new car. But my partner doesn’t drive so they wouldn’t use it much anyway.
-If I had more time, I could spend more time with my friends and family or pursue some hobbies or career goals outside of work. But my partner works long hours and doesn’t want me spending any time away from them after work hours either…
You’re not getting what you want in your relationship for one simple reason: You don’t know what you want.
There are a lot of reasons why people stay in relationships that aren’t working for them. They could be codependent, they could be afraid of being alone, they could be afraid of hurting the other person’s feelings, or they could simply be bored. But the most common reason is that they don’t know what they want.
Some of our community members often tell me that their partner isn’t meeting their needs and that they need to leave the relationship. But when I ask them what their needs are and how their partner isn’t meeting them, they have no idea. They’ve never taken the time to think about it because they aren’t really sure what it is they’d like to get out of a relationship — other than someone who loves them unconditionally and makes them happy all the time (which doesn’t exist).
If there is anything I have learned throughout the years of my work with couples, it’s that we are usually our own worst enemy in a relationship. We undermine ourselves in relationships by making excuses, not communicating our needs and desires, believing lies that keep us stuck in unhealthy behaviors, and pretending to be someone we aren’t. Critical communication and strategizing with your partner will increase your chances of success significantly. As a couple, you need to find ways to connect emotionally and communicate openly and honestly with each other about your needs and expectations to be happy and successful together.
If you want to improve your relationship, then it might be time to put some extra work into it. There’s no way around it. If you want a better partner, partner, friend, or family member; you need to be willing to give more of yourself as well. You need to think about what you really want out of the relationship in all aspects—and then take action. This doesn’t mean that you’ll get everything you want, but sacrificing part of what you want could mean a long and sustainable future with your partner moving forward. These five tips should help start you on your way if you’re committed to giving more and getting more in return.
People have been asking me lately how they can keep their relationship so fun, nurturing, and positive. In order to answer the question thoroughly, I’ve taken a few months to analyze the situation and how one can improve intimacy in a relationship.
Intimacy is important in any relationship, whether you’re married or not. It’s what keeps you connected to your partner and allows you to grow together as a couple.
But what exactly is intimacy in a relationship?
I don’t know about you, but when I hear the word “intimacy”, I think of romance and Parisian lovemaking under the Eiffel Tower (well, I do now!). However, intimacy means different things depending on what phase of your life you are in. When you are new partners, intimacy might be feeling each other’s heartbeat while lying in bed together. When you’re married, it might be having a meaningful conversation over tea. Both of these situations can be intimate, but they are different kinds of intimacy. Thus, one type of intimacy is not necessarily better than the other!
In fact, intimacy is a feeling of closeness and trust with another person—a deep understanding of who they are as an individual, and also how they fit into your life as a partner.
This includes both physical and emotional intimacy. It can be expressed in many different ways: through touch, eye contact, sex, communication, compliments… the list goes on!
But when it comes down to it, intimacy is about vulnerability—both yours and theirs—and sharing something very personal, special, and sacred with each other.
First, what’s the importance of intimacy in a relationship?
Intimacy is an important aspect of any healthy relationship, and it’s something that shouldn’t be taken for granted.
You might think that intimacy is only important to you as a couple, but it actually plays an important role in your children’s lives too. How you interact with each other as a couple can have an impact on how your children feel about their own relationships. If they see you communicating openly with each other and showing affection, they’ll learn positive ways to do the same with their partners later on in life.
It’s also good to remember that intimacy doesn’t have to be physical—it can be emotional or mental as well. That means being honest about how you feel about things, instead of holding back or trying not to make waves.
In this article we’ll discuss 7 ways to improve intimacy in your relationship:
Don’t confuse sex with intimacy.
When it comes to intimacy in a relationship, there are two things you can do: either make sure you’re doing things that help you get closer to each other, or do things that keep you apart.
We all want to be closer with our partners, and the best way to do that is by doing things together—whether it’s going on a date night, watching a movie together at home, or simply cuddling while watching TV.
It’s important that you don’t confuse sex with intimacy. Sex is an intimate act between two people who care about each other and want to connect physically in a way that feels good for both of them—but it doesn’t have to be connected with emotional intimacy. It’s important not only for your relationship but also for your self-esteem as a person that you know where your boundaries are when it comes to sex and intimacy so that neither one gets confused or blurred.
While intimacy is often associated with sex, it’s actually much more than that. According to an article by psychologist Dr. Gary Brown, intimacy is “a feeling of closeness between two people who have an emotional bond.”
If you’re thinking about investing in a relationship or marriage, here are five ways to improve intimacy:
Don’t confuse sex with intimacy. Sex isn’t the only way to increase intimacy in your relationship; it’s just one way. According to Dr. Brown, there are many other ways to increase intimacy, including:
Sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings
Listening attentively when your partner speaks
Touching each other in loving ways (hugs, caresses)
Expressing gratitude for what each of you brings into the relationship.
If you want to improve intimacy in your relationship, then you need to get romantic.
Romance is an essential part of any healthy relationship. It’s what keeps the passion alive, and it’s what gives your partner the reassurance that they are still desired and loved.
Relationships can become boring when they are routine and predictable, so it’s important to mix things up a bit and bring some romance back into your life.
Romance is a key part of any relationship. It’s the little things that can make your partner feel special and remind them how much you love them. Here are 7 ways to improve intimacy in a relationship:
Surprise them with a gift.
Plan a date night and make it special by creating an experience they’ll never forget.
Hug them when they least expect it!
Compliment their looks, personality, or anything else you appreciate about them!
Send them a cute text message to let them know how much you care about them!
Write them a love letter telling them all the reasons why you love being with them!
Show up unexpectedly at their work or home with flowers or chocolates!
Talk about your feelings and thoughts.
When you’re in a relationship, it’s easy to forget that the person you’re with is just as much of a human being as you are. You know their favorite color, their birthday, and their favorite movie… but what about the things that make them feel vulnerable? What are their fears? What do they want out of life? And how can you help them achieve those things?
It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day grind and forget that your partner is an individual with hopes and dreams all their own. But if you want to have a healthy relationship, it’s important to remember that your partner isn’t just there to support your goals—you need to support theirs as well. And one of the best ways to do this is by talking about your feelings and thoughts.
Here are 4 ways that talking about your feelings and thoughts can help improve intimacy in your relationship:
It builds trust.
It helps both partners feel closer and more connected.
It gives you both an opportunity, to be honest about what’s going on in your lives and how it affects each other (good or bad).
It allows for mutual understanding, which leads to better communication between partners
In order to improve intimacy in a relationship, you have to focus on the present and not the past. You can’t let yourself be distracted by the fact that they don’t look like your first love or that they don’t do things exactly as your ex did. The only thing that matters is what’s happening right now, and that’s what you need to focus on if you want your relationship to stay healthy and happy!
Don’t compare their physical appearance with anyone else’s. This includes comparing their hair color, eye color, height, weight, voice tone, and so on. Your partner has his or her own unique traits that make them who they are—and those are what makes them special!
Don’t compare how much money they make with how much money an ex made—or even any other partner made for that matter! Money isn’t everything (and neither is appearance or career success) so don’t let these things influence how much time and energy you give.
You need to understand that one of the biggest ways to improve intimacy in a relationship is to stop comparing your current partner to an ex.
This is so important because what you’re doing is essentially putting your current partner on trial. You’re asking yourself, “Why isn’t he/she like my ex?” and then coming up with a list of reasons why they don’t measure up. You might discover that your ex was better at cooking or had better hair, but instead of focusing on those superficial things and losing sight of what’s really important about your relationship, try looking at each person as an individual and not just as a comparison point.
You might also be able to improve intimacy by getting rid of any negative influences from past relationships. If you’ve been hurt before, it’s likely that you’ll still have some lingering feelings toward your ex-partner—and those feelings could be affecting how well you get along with your current one! It may be helpful to talk things through with a friend or family member who knows both parties well (and who isn’t too invested in having one side win). They can help reassure you that these feelings are normal and that they will fade over time—but only if you let them go!
Be open to adventure.
If you want to improve intimacy in your relationship, it’s time to open yourself up to an adventure.
What does this mean? Well, it doesn’t mean that you need to start rock climbing or skydiving (although those are great ways to add excitement). But it does mean that you need to think about the way you approach your relationship and your partner.
Think about how often you push the boundaries of what’s comfortable for you and your partner. If you prefer routines and consistency, try mixing up your date night schedule. If your partner likes spontaneity, maybe try a routine instead!
You can also take this idea of opening yourself up to adventure into bed with you: ask your partner what turns them on and then try doing it for them! It’s a great way to find out if there are any new things that will help boost intimacy in your relationship.
You can’t let your relationship become stagnant, and that means stepping outside of your comfort zone. You have to be willing to try new things with your partner. And when I say “new things,” I don’t mean going out for dinner or playing board games on the weekend. I’m talking about those little things that make each day unique—like having lunch at a different restaurant every day or taking a walk around town instead of driving.
These little adventures will help you get out of your comfort zone in a way that feels good and makes you feel closer to your partner. And as you’re doing these fun, little things together, you’ll be remembering why you fell in love with each other in the first place!
Get to the root of underlying issues like resentment or anger
You’re in a relationship, and you’re having trouble with intimacy. Maybe it’s because of resentment or anger; maybe it’s just that one of you is always busy, or working late.
Whatever the case may be, there are ways to improve your relationship and get back on track! Here are seven tips:
Identify the root of the issue
It’s easy to get caught up in how you feel at a given moment—and then take it out on your partner. Before you can address any problems that may arise, you need to figure out what’s really going on. If you’re feeling resentful or angry, ask yourself why. Are you struggling with some underlying issue that needs to be addressed? Or are you just having a bad day? Might there be something else going on?
Don’t try to fix everything at once
It’s tempting to immediately jump into fixing things when we’re upset with our partner, but this can actually make things worse. Instead of trying to solve every problem all at once, take time to talk about your feelings and concerns so that they don’t build up over time (and then explode). This will help you both feel heard and understood—and it will give each of you space to work through whatever issues are coming up for each of you individually so that they don’t interfere with your relationship as a whole.
Below are a few other ways you can easily resolve issues and improve intimacy in your relationship.
Talk about your feelings early and often
Be patient with each other (and yourself)
Don’t use sex as a weapon or a reward
Give each other space when necessary—but don’t let too much time go by without checking in
Practice good communication skills and listening skills (this means actually hearing what the other person is saying!)
Make sure both you and your spouse are happy with your individual lives before entering into a relationship together (don’t rush into anything!)
Never forget how much you mean to each other!
Spend quality time together.
Want to improve intimacy in your relationship? Try spending quality time together.
Spending time together is a great way to deepen your connection, which can make it easier for you to share yourself with your partner. It’s also a great way to show that you care about each other and that you’re willing to invest time into building something special.
Whether it’s going for a walk or taking a trip somewhere new, spending time together can help you feel closer than ever before.
It’s all about quality time.
If you have a good relationship, chances are you and your partner don’t feel like you’re spending enough time together. If you have a bad relationship, chances are that feeling of not having enough time with your partner is making things worse.
But no matter where you fall on the spectrum, it’s important to understand that the issue isn’t how much time you spend together—it’s how much quality time you spend together.
Quality time is when you’re focused on each other and what each of you has to say, not just filling in gaps between tasks or events. It means talking without distractions or interruptions, getting off your phones, and putting down your laptops so that you can really listen to each other. Quality time is also about being mindful of each other’s needs and desires—not just yours!
It doesn’t have to be expensive: go out for lunch instead of ordering in; plan a night at home where both of you put your phones away and just talk; or give some thought to the kind of activities that would make for a great date night (or even just one night).
Remember: relationships aren’t about quantity—they’re about quality!
Takeaway: How to improve intimacy in a relationship
As our relationships grow, we generally tend to care about different things. The possibilities for intimacy within a relationship are actually quite limitless; the trick is being willing to try new things in order to better understand and connect with your partner. It’s oftentimes the small, routine snippets of conversation and interaction that make up the fabric of a loving relationship. Those less dramatic moments are important just the same—so don’t discount them!
A couple’s emotional and physical health are intertwined, and when one suffers, the other often follows. And while some problems may seem impossible to fix, or just too big for you to deal with on your own, there is hope if you stay dedicated to the process of growth.